Well I've got a fail safe solution to get you started out. These 2 simple methods will get you comfortable with chating with her and you'll know excactly what to say to get the conversation started regardless of any fear.
As you begin to use the excersises I'm going to show you, you'll begin to realize that you have more options with women. Which will boost your confidence in general because your doing something that 99% of men don't do, and that is taking action when you see the woman you want. You'll be surpised how open women are to talking to you during the day at grocery stores, bookstores, coffee shops and that is because women want to be approached in these places.
Excercise # 1 Rapport building
The key to this excercise is to get you comfortable with the idea of talking to the woman even before you've said a word to her and to take your focus off her beauty and put it more on what she is doing at that moment. Remember this excercise is just to get you started out. Once you've gotten past your first few dozen approaches you wont even need it anymore.
Step 1) When you see a lady your interested in immediately copy her body language
For Example >>> If she has her arms crossed, cross your arms also
If she is on her cell phone, copy her by scratching your ear
If her arms are to her side, put your arms to your side also
If she has her hands on her hips, put your hands on your hips
Step 2) Notice the effect this has on your level of anxiety. It's amazing and you should notice immediately how relaxed you are with the idea of talking to her and the reason for this is because your focused on something besides her looks and getting more in tune with her mood and matching her mood with yours. Often times you should notice that your able come up with a great conversation starter just from this alone.
Exercise # 2 Fail Safe Conversation Starter For Supermarkets And Bookstores
((Grocery store approach))- As you walk up to her pick up a food item out of your cart and ask her if she has tried it before.
You can also pick up something of the shelf as your walking toward her. Remember women want to be approached in grocery stores and this is fail safe method to use if your lazy or nervous and can't think of anything to talk about.
((Bookstore))- Ask her if the book she is reading is any good
Again this is a fail safe method to use if you cant think of anything to say
As you continue to approach more women and your expanding your comfort zone you'll soon begin to have a lot of fun with this and when that happens getting phone numbers and dates will become a lot easier. You'll also start talking to women everywhere you go regardless of location. Put these 2 exercises to use and get out of your comfort zone.
I sincerely hope this article gives you the tools you need to be more successful with your dating life and helps you to take action.
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