The Power Of Believing Women Want You And Developing The Third Eye And Ear

 Why is it so important to have a strong set belief that women want you? Well in my experience as you begin gaining experience through successful and even unsuccessful interactions through dating and meeting women you'll start developing something I like to call the third eye and ear. This is not something you learn but it is something you develop, similar to a reflex as your belief in yourself with women grows. Yes, I called it a reflex because sometimes women do and say things so fast that you don't have time to analyze whether or not she is attracted to you. It's more efficient to just believe she already is, and when that happens you start to begin seeing everything she does (third eye) and everything she says (third ear) as signals to escalate with her verbally or physically.

Imagine yourself in a supermarket shopping for potato chips and there is a really gorgeous woman in the aile with you. As she slowly walks towards you, your focus of attention becomes completely centered around her. You want to talk to her but your unsure about how well she would take it. But a little bit after she takes a few more steps in your direction, while scanning for what chips she wants, she suddenly grabs a bag and walks toward the register. Then out of nowhere another woman walks up to you and says (OMG I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU DIDN'T SEE THAT, THAT GIRL WAS SERIOUSLY CHECKING YOU OUT!!). Her statement have a strong effect, and almost immediately your confidence shoots through the roof, while your beliefs change instantly about how attractive you are to women. You soon find the bag of potato chips you want, but as your on your way to the register, you see the same girl that was in the aile with you before, leaving the store, but something really exciting happens as you look in her direction. She turns her head and glances at you making longer than normal eye contact, while she is on her way out the door. But the excitement doesn't end there, because as you continue walking toward the register, you see another gorgeous woman accidentally drop her bread while she is staring at you. You even hear a group of girls giggling out loud obviously to get your attention. You start thinking to yourself if only I had seen it sooner. What your experiencing is the power of belief that women want you, and as your beliefs about how attractive you are to women changed, you started to see them doing things you couldn't see before (third eye) and you started to hear saying things that you couldn't hear before (third ear), and automatically begin framing there actions as signals of interest. And for those whose beliefs are strong enough through experience you'll begin seeing these signals of interest from women as opportunities to move things forward.


Having a good 3RD EYE and EAR through the power of belief in my opinion is really crucial to successfully meeting and dating more women. And that is because woman purposely make it extremely difficult for men to know whether or not they are attracted to them, because women don't want to be seen as easy.When interacting with women it is a waste of energy to figure out whether she is attracted to you, it's better to use no energy at all and just realize that she is already attracted to you, and that there is nothing more you need to do other than move relationship forward with her. A woman will resist when you make a move, she will flake on you, she will reject you, she will tell you your not good enough, she try to make you feel like your not good enough, she will make fun of you, she will test your beliefs to the very core. But as you gain experience with women and your belief in yourself gets stronger you'll start to develop a 3RD EYE and EAR and easily begin framing her actions in your favor.

Don't worry I might sound a little extreme with all of this but women are not out to get men...except for maybe in bed, just remember to have fun and above all don't take yourself seriously at all around women

Below is a good example of what happens when you have a strong solid belief that women want you and what happens when you don't have any belief at all.


For example we have guy #1

Guy # 1 Has no experience with women and he doesn't have a strong belief that women want him

Guy # 1 is at a bar and a gorgeous girl walks by and sits right next to him and starts chating with the bartender

Guy # 1 looks at her and she looks at him and nothing is said (end of interaction)

Guy # 1 was attracted to her but assumed she wasn't attracted to him.


Guy # 2 Has experience with women but doesn't have a solid belief that women want him

Guy # 2 is at a bar and a gorgeous girl walks by and sits right next to him and starts chating with the bartender

Guy # 2 looks at her and she looks at him and guy # 2 says
       
        Guy: Hey what are you drinking
     
        girl: long Island ice tea (in an annoyed tone of voice)

        Guy: Sorry to bother you (He's apologetic and backs off)

Guy # 2 was attracted to her but thought she didn't like him because of her tone of voice and he didn't realize that she was being playful


Guy # 3 Has a lot of experience with women and has a solid self belief that women want him

Guy # 3 is at a bar and a hot girl walks by and sits right next to him and starts chating with the bartender

Guy # 3 turns and puts his arm around her chair and looks at her and she looks at him and guy # 3 says

        Guy: Those are some nice shoes you have on (while grabbing her foot with the shoe on it)
       
        girl: yeah I have about a 1000 pair

        Guy: 1000 pair how do you keep track? (in a playful tone)
 
        girl: I manage (while turning to talk to the bartender she pulls out her smartphone and gets on facebook)

        Guy: (Drinks from his glass of ice cold water...then he reaches and grabs her smartphone)

        girl: (she lets him have the phone while she starts talking to the bartender again)

        Guy: How do you unlock this smartphone?

        girl: (turns and unlocks the smartphone for him)

        Guy: (Dials his own phone with her phone and saves her number in his phone)

        girl: Are you done getting my number? (in an annoyed but playful tone)

        Guy: Well I do have to save my number in your phone but first I'll to come up with a name
     
        Guy: How about Batman...lol

        girl: laughs

        Guy: (Puts in the name and gives her back her phone)

        Guy: I'll have to come up with a name for you also

        girl: I'm listening

        Guy: How about Wonderwoman...lol

        girl: laughs
     
       (end of interaction)

2 Simple Tricks That Will Get You Started With Approaching Women During The Day.

All of us as men have been there. Your in a grocery store or supermarket or a bookstore and the woman you've always wanted walks by or is sitting there waiting for you to talk to her. But there is just one problem, what do you say to her to get a conversation started?

Well I've got a fail safe solution to get you started out. These 2 simple methods will get you comfortable with chating with her and you'll know excactly what to say to get the conversation started regardless of any fear.

As you begin to use the excersises I'm going to show you, you'll begin to realize that you have more options with women. Which will boost your confidence in general because your doing something that 99% of men don't do, and that is taking action when you see the woman you want. You'll be surpised how open women are to talking to you during the day at grocery stores, bookstores, coffee shops and that is because women want to be approached in these places.

Excercise # 1 Rapport building

The key to this excercise is to get you comfortable with the idea of talking to the woman even before you've said a word to her and to take your focus off her beauty and put it more on what she is doing at that moment. Remember this excercise is just to get you started out. Once you've gotten past your first few dozen approaches you wont even need it anymore.

Step 1) When you see a lady your interested in immediately copy her body language

For Example >>> If she has her arms crossed, cross your arms also
             
                If she is on her cell phone, copy her by scratching your ear

                If her arms are to her side, put your arms to your side also

                If she has her hands on her hips, put your hands on your hips

Step 2) Notice the effect this has on your level of anxiety. It's amazing and you should notice immediately how relaxed you are with the idea of talking to her and the reason for this is because your focused on something besides her looks and getting more in tune with her mood and matching her mood with yours. Often times you should notice that your able come up with a great conversation starter just from this alone.

Exercise # 2 Fail Safe Conversation Starter For Supermarkets And Bookstores

((Grocery store approach))- As you walk up to her pick up a food item out of your cart and ask her if she has tried it before.

You can also pick up something of the shelf as your walking toward her. Remember women want to be approached in grocery stores and this is fail safe method to use if your lazy or nervous and can't think of anything to talk about.

((Bookstore))- Ask her if the book she is reading is any good

Again this is a fail safe method to use if you cant think of anything to say

As you continue to approach more women and your expanding your comfort zone you'll soon begin to have a lot of fun with this and when that happens getting phone numbers and dates will become a lot easier. You'll also start talking to women everywhere you go regardless of location. Put these 2 exercises to use and get out of your comfort zone.

 I sincerely hope this article gives you the tools you need to be more successful with your dating life and helps you to take action.